Parent Pre-Season Meeting Outline
RI Magic – Parent & Coach First Meeting Agenda
1. Welcome & Introductions (3 minutes)
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Introduce yourself and assistant coach if applicable
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Parent Introductions
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Quick background on coaching experience and philosophy
2. Communication & Updates (2 minutes)
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Share your primary mode of communication
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Expectation for letting you know if player will be unavailable for practices/games
- At HS, players should be communicating with the coach
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Tournament Schedule are on an apps and updated on RI Magic website
- David and Justin will send an email with the app information before the first tournament
3. Player Expectations (3 minutes)
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We hold players accountable to their effort, attitude and shot selection, all attributes players control
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Work hard and be coachable
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Prioritize team effort, unselfish play, and positive energy
4. Parent Expectations (3 minutes)
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Be positive supporters — no coaching from the sidelines
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Respect referees, players, and opponents
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Allow coaches to handle playing time and strategy discussions
- Magic has a 24-hour rule in regards to discussions about playing time
5. Questions / Discussion (3 minutes)
6. Closing Remarks (1 minute)
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Thank families for playing with the Magic this season
Guidelines For Other Parent Meetings
1. Any meetings with parents, it is good to have the player and David and/or Justin there to facilitate if needed.
If the meeting involves a serious incident, we must be in attendance.
2. Examples of other meetings that we would attend:
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Bad Parent Behavior
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Bad Player Behavior (More than one technical foul a season requires a meeting)
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Major Incident at a practice or game
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Poor attendance/lack of communication about missing practices and games
3. Most meetings revolve around playing time. It is good to have the player there as well. For those meetings, focus on:
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The overall philosophy for minutes (4 minutes a ½, 8 a game)
- Anything extra is earned based on skill, practice attendance, focus, effort, and coachability.
Minutes can be lost due to: mistakes/ineffectiveness, lack of effort, poor attitude, and/or not knowing plays. -
Make decisions for team success, not individual success. That can vary from game to game and tournament to tournament based on a variety of factors.
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Playing time is a reflection of where a player is right now, not their future potential. Reinforce that players can and often do grow into larger roles.





